Masturbation vs. Masturbators: Real Experiences from a Man Who’s Tried It All
For almost every adult man, masturbation is an unavoidable part of growing up. At some point, we all turn to self-pleasure as a way to release stress, loneliness, or simple sexual desire.
Yet for years, countless arguments and myths have surrounded masturbation:“It’s bad for your health.”“It causes prostate problems.”“It will make you weak and unmotivated forever.”
From my personal experience — and from years of reading both Chinese and international medical articles — the truth is actually simple: masturbation it...
Four Ways Men Experience Pleasure — From Basic to Truly Transformative
When people talk about male pleasure, the conversation is often simplified into one narrow idea. In reality, men experience pleasure through very different pathways—physical, emotional, psychological, and even neurological. These experiences are not equal, nor do they serve the same purpose.
From convenience to connection, from curiosity to intensity, here are four common ways men experience pleasure, each representing a different level of exploration.
1. Using Hands: The Most Basic and Convenient Way
For most men, plea...
Eating, sleeping, breathing — these are basic human instincts. Sex is one of them too. Yet today, sex often feels awkward, private, or even embarrassing. So when did something so natural become so hard to talk about?
Before History: Sex as a Natural Part of Life
In early human societies, sex was not a “topic” — it was simply life. People didn’t separate sex from nature, survival, or the body. It was closely tied to fertility, seasons, and community.
There was curiosity, pleasure, and ritual, but very little shame. Sex was not hidden. It was understood.
Ancient Civilizations: Sex Was Open, ...